Someone I Used to Know…

Hits: 119He replays their last encounter, replaying each scene, rewriting the dialogue in hopes of a more favorable ending. What he observed that afternoon defied explanation and is impossible to articulate to anyone who lacks context and insight.  He enters her townhome and sees her cowering on an ottoman;a woman he thought he knew. He...

“Little” Lies:When She Cried Wolf…(2nd Installment)

Hits: 126 Cloaked in a fragile yet morally superior persona she deconstructs his motive, her harm absent any hint of her culpability. Inspired by her testimony, the flock cannot contain themselves, their behavior so demonstrative that it even draws the ire of an empathetic magistrate. Her young female attorney, a prominent feminist figure and blogger,...

When She Cried Wolf…

Hits: 234Prior to the release of my article and book, I wanted to let my subscribers read the short story that started it all. If you do not see a link to the story you will have to subscribe to the blog to access it.  Walking slowly, seemingly infirmed, she approaches the court’s entrance, steadied...

Perfect Timing!

Hits: 35My accident has slowed down my progress on my book and articles. Nonetheless, I have been collecting documentation that will enable to defend my position on gender equity in family law. A week ago I was handed a gift from the most unlikely source, Governor Kemp. The Governor recently appointed an openly gay magistrate...

Accident Scene

Hits: 83Today I visited the the place where my accident occurred in July. Several friends asked why in the world would I want to do this but I had always planned to do so. It was actually quite helpful for many reasons. Going there reminded me not only of how fragile life is but also...

Adapt

Hits: 44Last night I was doing my physical therapy, and something happened that reminded me of the importance of adaption. For months I have been babying an arthritic hip. As a result, my lower back, hamstrings, and quads have weakened. Tired of not being able to fully function physically, I decided to go heavier in...

Run Over by a Car: Still Not a Victim

Hits: 114On July 24th, I was hit by a car who turned in front of me going at least 45 mph. The Georgia State Trooper told me that the driver clipped my front tire. He said that I was lying in the middle of the street when he arrived on the scene. The driver only...

Gender Blaming

Hits: 57What if we starting labeling feminine gender traits as as toxic? I have learned so much while writing my book and magazine articles.

She Says It’s Freedom of Speech…

Hits: 104Although meant to protect vulnerable groups, “identity based” statutes are often flawed. These laws represent knee-jerk legislative responses to public outrage without consideration of potential loopholes and legal challenges. Revenge porn laws are no exception.  Is it reasonable to think that revenge porn could be considered free speech someday soon? Sadly, the answer is...

The Family Law Industrial Complex

Hits: 68Are microaggrieved affluent women a commodity for family law attorneys? Do low-income women or ethnic minority women have comparable access to legal representation, especially in family violence proceedings? In preparation for my article release, I suggest my readers listen to the following interview of attorney Jessica Reece Fagan and form their own opinion.   ...

Hell hath…

Hits: 98I wanted to share yet another example of the weaponization of FVPA and the gender bias in family courts. Kate seems oddly familiar. 😉

Strong Men

Hits: 68 A Harmless Man Is Not A Good Man. A Good Man Is A Very Dangerous Man Who Has That Under Voluntary Control Jordan Peterson